• Sadly, its all about respect! I believe that this kind of bullying is rife in Australia and to kick the underdog is the norm. As for respect for mothers, we are still harassing women who breast feed their babies!!! Thank you Tara for saying it all so eloquently. - YVONNE
  • This letter is just about showing good manners. If they showed this thoughtlessness to their friends, they wouldn't have any. So why treat your parents so shabbily? - PG
  • That's so sad. I have five children and nineteen grandchildren, spread over 350 kms. We have a family group on facebook where all the adults and the older grandchildren communicate regularly. We have family get togethers for Christmas and mid year as well as special occasions and everyone (including grandchildren and their boyfriend/girlfriend come). They are just fun family bbqs and everyone brings food and drink to share. I know in time, they will drift apart and form their own family groups, but they will have a good grounding. Your family is what you make it. - Marnie
  • He must really be worried that he' s going to lose his seat! - Glynnis Henderson
  • That would be great. There is a Facebook group I am part of, I found it by desperately searching one night because you do feel so alone! https://www.facebook.com/?q=#/groups/130773080382056/?ref=ts&fref=ts We mainly go there to ask for advice and support as many of us feel abandoned and helpless. - Concerned
  • Thank you Benison. I too get sick of people claiming ADHD is not a real condition and that it's the environment, diet, poor parenting etc. Parents of children with other disabilities get support and compassion but I have found ostracism, criticism and nasty comments. - Concerned
  • Last two rules rock it Mrs Woog. Our nail polish rule is a little more fluid...as long as its applied nicely and a neutral tone and you dont get detention for wearing it, its ok. We are an out and proud family and zero tolerance to judgey crap, all welcome in our home just ask you bring your manners and humour - Cstar
  • Miranda that's a sensational idea. I've put my full name up this time and can be found on Facebook. I'm also happy to put my email address. Just like Concerned, I used to think that life would be so much easier if my son had a physical disability as well. Not in any way to discredit how hard it is to look after anyone, let alone a child in that situation, but because it just seemed it would be easier. I begged for valium at one point for my son, just a small dose to calm him down and regain some control but it seemed that it was easier for doctors to say no to that rather than give some form of relief to the child and the rest of the family. He was on anti-psychotics for a while but they didn't help because he is not psychotic. Rhoda you're idea about parenting resources is a good one, but only for ADD and ADHD. Oppositional Defiant Disorder, Conduct Disorder and Borderline Personality Disorder (which is what they call ODD when they turn eighteen), are totally different animals. These children have a neurological problem within the brain where the signals just don't get through or are totally blocked to different parts of the brain. These children are born this way, they don't grow into it though in some circumstances of parenting or familial problems can make it worse. Because of the anger, violence and abuse issues there is no form of respite either because the risk of someone else being hurt is too high and no agency will risk it. If anyone does want to make contact, here's my email: t_forbes64@hotmail.com I'll check out Facebook....perhaps a support and resource page might be of help too. Just knowing there are others going through the same thing and you won't be ridiculed for what you say and you will be believed can be a help. - Tracey Forbes
  • What relentlessly distressing stories some of the respondents have to tell. Their problems don't sound like they're caused by lack of diagnosis or increased rates of prescription - rather show need for more community support, better training of social workers, police, journos etc. Just wonder how much contact Concerned and others have with parents in similar situations - and if there's some of way of putting you all in touch with each other - if you're interested? - miranda
  • It seems we should love your rules, but not our neighbours, if they are are those of people who disagree with our "tolerant" view of peoples sexual preferences. Morality and other such obselete values ought not to come into it. Besides "loving your neighbour" is for those intolerant Christian suckers. - Na Yeo
 
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MEET THE AUTHOR: PHILIPPA GREGORY

As a feminist and an historian it only made sense that best-selling author Philippa Gregory would end up exploring the little-known stories of women in history.

In her latest novel, she sets her sights on Richard III’s wife Anne Neville.

Gregory studied 18th century history at university and went on to specialise in women’s history. Her fascination with women’s lives in the Middle Ages led to her writing her bestselling Tudor series, including the novel The Other Boleyn Girl which has since been made into a movie. Currently, Gregory is working on another fascinating dynasty from this period, the Plantagenets.

The Hoopla’s Meredith Jaffé spoke to Philippa Gregory about the secret to writing bestselling historical novels.

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What struck me very early on with The Kingmaker’s Daughter is that on one hand the women in this story are pawns and yet there are some female characters that wield quite a significant amount of power. What is it about the women of these historical times that fascinates you as a writer?

Well I’m a feminist and a historian and I’m a feminist historian so of course I’m going to be interested in women in history. What’s really interesting is the way women are able to act in these periods, where they have no formal power whatsoever, in fact they have no rights, they barely have a position in society.

They can get a position by marriage, which is what we see most of these women do, but even that is not in their choosing. They are put into marriages by their fathers, so they’re born as the property of a father and then they are handed over as a property to a husband. But what is really interesting in this society, which was by definition hugely patriarchal, is to see what women can and do do with the opportunities that are available to them. I always find that very inspiring because what you can see is that women in our society women are often disadvantaged but when you look at the mediaeval world you see women hopelessly, tremendously, enormously disadvantaged and yet they still manage to do things.

You steer clear of that Olde Englande type detail that often interrupts the modern reader. Is that something you deliberately set out to do or is that just a consequence of being a modern storyteller?

No it’s very much part of my own individual style, which I’ve honed now over 20 years of writing historical fiction. I took a decision in my first book that I wouldn’t ever attempt historical type dialogue because we simply don’t know how people spoke. And actually, if you rendered it in anyway authentically, nobody would understand what you were saying. What people say at the time is that a man from Warwickshire, in central England, could not possibly understand a man from Devon from the far west. In any case, almost everybody at the court speaks French, and they sometimes speak Latin to each other on formal occasions, so it would be a nonsensical device.

It’s a modern story in the sense that you’ve made the story so incredibly accessible that I didn’t feel like I was particularly reading historical fiction. The themes and the problems rang true to me today.

I would hate for anybody to feel that they were particularly reading historical fiction. It seems to me that a good historical novel has to be both accurate history and a really readable novel. It’s got to be both. You should be able to read it if you know nothing and care nothing for history and if you’re never going to read any of the history round it, and still enjoy it as a story of individuals under certain pressures wending their way through their lives.

In that sense, it’s timeless because it’s a novel about the development of individuals in their circumstances. The circumstances are, of course, the history but that shouldn’t be an obstacle, that should be an enhancement to the story.

How do you go from the historical facts to supposition? What kind of choices do you have to make for the betterment of the story that are not necessarily completely true to historical or generally accepted facts of a period?

First of all, you have this difficulty that there are some controversial facts of the period. It’s not a period so well researched that there’s a general agreement among historians as to what happened. A classic example (that occurs in The Kingmaker’s Daughter) is the death of the princes in the tower.

Nobody knows when they died, how they died, if they were killed and if they were killed, who killed them? We don’t even have a body. So in a sense, that’s absolutely an example that if you were writing a history you would make your calculations clear to the reader. You would say, I think it was so and so and this is why I think it was so and so.

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  1. Thrifty Fashionista August 25, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Love her. Reading Wideacre now and finished Zelda’s Cut recently. I love her contemporary novels just as much as her historical works. They’re like psychological dissections … and that’s what ‘chick-lit’ should really be. Because when it comes to analysis, Freud ain’t got nothing on females… :)

     
  2. RobynMarie August 26, 2012 Reply
     
     

    I absolutely love Phillipa Gregory’s books. She brings to life that era so beautifully you feel like you are one of the characters intead of a reader. I’m so glad she is such a prolific wrtier and that the royals have provided such good material. After reading her books I wondered why anyone would want to marry into that mess, even now.

     

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