• Unfortunately we are judged by our appearance. I agree with some of the comments, get a lot older and see how you feel about botox. I had botox last week and it is just starting to take effect. My brows are raising and there is not as much eyelid loose skin. I'm loving it!! I have spent thousands and thousands of dollars on creams and potions over the years and the only thing that really works is retinol on script. Mix with Philosophy's vit C powder for more boost. Also I have gone back to oils. Sweet almond oil and a baby wipe removes all make up and replenishes your skin. And it is not the wrinkles that make your skin look old, it's the pigmentation and skin discolouration. - Pauline W
  • Let's remember that the majority of people whether they are Muslim, Christian or any other religion are good law abiding citizens, these men are part of a minority and they will be dealt with by the legal system accordingly. - Lisa
  • Agree Mrs Woog. I have always been a face washer and soap girl with slatherings of moisturisers, mostly supermarket brands. Any thoughts of going under the knife has all been cured by a partial mastectomy last month, and now going bald with chemo my 57 year old face is very exposed to my scrutiny everyday. Following the initial shock of seeing myself so exposed, wrinkles, sun spots etc after i shaved my head, so as not to leave a trail of hair wherever i went, I decided to love it and wear it. I am still me. Chemo, lopsided boobs, Botox, and boob jobs won't change that. I don't wear wigs, put my red lippy and big earrings on everyday and thank the goddesses that I live in this country, with a happy healthy loving family and a good health system! - Toni
  • The inclusion of women on the basis women are the same as men, the competitive, merit based approach utilised over the past century to enable women to achieve the same skill levels as men, is, at the same time, the contemporary source of disrespect for women. If women were the same as men they would never have been discriminated against for being women in the first place, but because they were, the gap in skill levels has had to be overcome in the transition to equality. Respect is engendered with inclusion on the basis of difference, the diversity approach, currently emerging, which concludes the transition. If women were included equitably in Australia’s parliaments on the basis of difference, each parliament would have a women’s legislature operating in tandem with a men’s legislature, presided over by a council of governors or governors-general comprising an equal number of women and men. Australia is at the forefront of the transition from competition to diversity, a process which should culminate with a referendum on the provision of a women’s legislature in the Federal parliament with the question: “Do you agree to amend the Constitution to enable equal rights between women and men?”. - philip
  • Meanwhile, I like that old feminist motto "Question Authority" - ro.watson
  • Yip, equality. Yip, inclusion. Yip, respect for any effort and example and yip, respect for being there when you have a capacity to say what this is and is not like, and was and was not like, for those coming after you. - ro.watson
  • Gracie 123 totally agree I don't mind having a flutter on the Melbourne Cup in the form of a Sweep ,but this gambling on everything is abhorrent the Waterhouse's and the like sicken me.They get their wealth on the weakness of others.px be on them and theirs - Sarah
  • I am a single, childless, woman in midlife; educated, work experienced and apparently - unemployable. In the domestic sphere, I have no problems with respect - as I am master of my own household. I own property, pay taxes etc etc. However, beyond the domestic sphere - in the world at large, I feel powerless. And why? Because I can't get a job. And so my economic independence on a 1 to 10 scale is zero. I see personal economic security as key to self respect, and my full participation in society. In Australia now - I am encountering unavoidable barriers that stop me gaining the employment, that enables me to be economically independent - and enjoy my individual sense of power - as a modern woman. To employers and recruiters - I am invisible. Is it because of my age? Is it because of my gender? I think it's a combination of both. But where the "disrespect" originates - I think is not limited to one sex or the other. I think that women (including educated and powerful women) can be disrespectful toward their own gender. I know this from experience on the workplace floor (and social observation). We are all competitive animals. As for respect? Any politician (female or male) that takes strong and clear action to remove the barriers that inhibit my "employability" is showing a respect for my rights and entitlements as an individual. Gender shouldn't enter the equation. This is why I find it tiring to see parliamentary time absorbed by the "misogyny debate". Ordinary women from the lower thresholds of society, do not have this luxury. Some will curse me - but when I see various female politicians accusing this one or that one of being sexist - all I see is the indulgent banter of women with a particular agenda, and the luxury of a political platform and well paid career path. I feel disconnected from their world. If I saw them speaking up about the crucial issuing affecting ordinary women (and men) I would feel more inspired by this topic and their actions. - Patrice
  • Anyway not sure about the notion of "lone wolves" .A search and finding of belonging takes many forms~ I am not sure how many acts which harm and hurt single or multiple people are "organised" though I suppose people can get skilled in how to hurt and maim other people, and do this hurting.... and remember this hurting when the ones they loved or knew were hurt or killed too etc.....? - ro.watson
  • This is the problem Jenna, most Australians forget or don't know exactly why it is Australia has troops over there at all. You and your partner have my deepest and utmost respect. Take care. - Tracey
 
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“I was very pleased, obviously, to have outsold such great writers. But I’m not insane – I do realize that I am a popular writer who people buy to take on vacation.”
Maeve Binchy

This week saw the passing of one of Ireland’s most loved and best selling authors, Maeve Binchy. It’s no real surprise that Maeve Binchy has sold more books than fellow Irish writers like James Joyce and Oscar Wilde. Her books always read as if she were a pen pal filling you in on the goings-on of her life and by the time you finished them it was like leaving behind new friends.

Best known for such books as Tara Road, Quentins and Circle of Friends, Binchy made The New York Times best sellers list an amazing 11 times. She also wrote a hugely popular monthly column in the Irish Times called Maeve’s Week, which ran for 32 years, and was a successful playwright and writing teacher.

Another favourite Irish writer, Cathy Kelly, posted this comment on Facebook:
“Such a sad day when a wonderful woman like Maeve Binchy leaves us. She was an amazing writer, a lovely woman and a real mentor.”

Hear, hear. And in case you haven’t had a chance to read it yet, here is The Hoopla’s tribute to Maeve Binchy.

There are other things to share in the world of books, so let’s to it.

The Woman Who Dived into the Heart of the World, Sabina Berman

“…I seem not to feel all those complicated things and imaginary things that standard humans feel.

Standard: normal, typical.

Standard humans: humans within the norm.

I don’t feel those 101 things that are somewhere between pain, fear, and happiness, or between hunger and sleepiness. Which, the way I see it, is to my advantage.

I mean, I know that I am dimwitted, at least compared to standard human beings. I know that on standard IQ tests I score somewhere between idiot and imbecile. But I have 3 virtues, and they are big ones.

1. I don’t know how to lie.
2. I don’t fantasize, so things that don’t exist don’t worry Me or hurt Me.
3. I know that I only know what I know, and that what I don’t know- which is a lot more- I am sure I don’t know.

And that, like I said, over the long run has given Me a big advantage over standard humans.”

When Karen’s mother dies, her Aunt Isabelle returns to Mazatlán, Mexico to take over the family tuna cannery. Karen is autistic and through torture and neglect has become more wild animal than human. But Isabelle immediately recognises the green eyes reflected back at her and sees that it is her duty to educate Karen and bring her into the real world.

This compassion begins Karen’s journey to Me. Finding solace and fascination in equal measure from the tuna business, Karen becomes a world expert in sustainable aquaculture, animal welfare and husbandry. Along the way she learns to make her emotions small, determines that metaphors and euphemisms do more harm than good and ponders whether the human obsession with “I think, therefore I am,” is a conceit that places the philosopher Descartes in a position in the human psyche that Charles Darwin should occupy.

And like the naturalist, Karen prefers the company of her beloved tuna, and their complex existence and future, to the problems of human kind.

Sabina Berman is one of Mexico’s most admired and innovative playwrights, winning the Mexico National Theatre Prize a remarkable four times.

Reading this book reminded me of the first time I read Yann Martel’s Life of Pi, in that the story was so completely imagined – at times surreal, and the writing is wonderful. Karen is both character and narrator, and being part ingénue and part stubborn child, allows Berman to reveal the unattractive side of human behaviour often as an observation rather than as an interaction. It’s a device that makes even simple scenes all the more powerful because the reader exists in Karen’s head, which is often a very funny place to be. Karen’s experience of Japanese toilets is a classic, as is her use of emoticons.

This book is almost impossible to explain in a few hundred words but is best summed up as a thought provoking, wide-ranging novel told in deceptively simple language. BUY THE BOOK

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  1. shelleyrae @ Book'd Out August 3, 2012 Reply
     
     

    I have the Unfinished Journal of Elizabeth D to read, also Hannah and Emil by Belinda Castles.
    Of what I have read in the last month I would recommend Cold Grave by Kathryn Fox and Burning Lies by Helene Young, If you need a laugh then I recommend The After Wife by Gigi Levangie Grazer

     
  2. Meredith August 3, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Tell me more about The After Wife (after what? is the question begged)

     

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