• "When a sick fourteen month-old baby needs her mum….or dad. No it’s not. There’s no contest. Sick baby wins!" "If sick baby wins", why was it ok for sick baby to wait 5 days? Mum requested on Monday... for leave on Thursday. And then when granted leave, mum spends the afternoon doing radio and television interviews. Seems more like sick baby wins when it's politically convenient. We've moved from misogyny and onto sick babies, this Parliament's new football. - Joe
  • Hey KF, more power to you and me and anyone who has to FIGHT for our loved ones who can't fight for themselves. One day at a time. Sometimes one hour at a time. Metoo- here's hoping you never have to walk a mile in our shoes- for a multitude of reasons, and my last word- I don't see it as "locking up" my aunt I see it as an honor to make sure she is safe, looked after and comfortable for the rest of her life Good luck to everyone, Robyn - Roby
  • Tara, this article is brilliant. Agree with every word. - Nicole Madigan
  • Santorini..... - Katherine Basher
  • Very moving. Everyone I know who had done this has been touched by it. - Jo
  • I have to disagree with a few things in this article. Mothers have never been better supported than they are now. 12 years ago I didn't get a baby bonus and I only got 16% childcare rebate. Now families get 50% rebate on childcare. 12 years ago there was no paid maternity leave option from the government and the paid maternity leave from my work was 6 weeks, now it's increased to 8 weeks. A colleague told me last year she took 8 weeks at half pay (over 16 weeks) and then got 18 weeks paid maternity leave from the government so she could take over 8 months off with pay. There is also paternity leave available now where I work which wasn't available 12 years ago. However I do agree with Tara Moss about Newstart. Giving single parents the Newstart allowance is pathetic and I challenge any politician to try and live on it for 6 months and pay a mortgage or rent and see how they survive. We also still have a long way to go on gender equality when it comes to pay scales but hopefully with more women in the workforce it will help the cause. - Not That Bad
  • Wonderful. I always ask myself will someone die if I fuck up? Will it matter in 3 months? And who fucking cares? Works for me. The swearing part is important apparently. ;-) x - Michaela C
  • Our focus on women and children and their difficulties ignores the elephant in the room. Where is the father/partner in this equation? Where is the support, financial responsibilty, active participation and general parental sharing by partners/fathers? Where are they all? Why has the focus on women and children left them invisible and unaccountable? Is it because we don't expect men to take care of their responsibilities, or is it too hard any issue to deal with? I fully acknowledge that there are many exceptions, including death of a partner, abuse and violence, and other diverse reasons, but is there no way we can broaden the debate to include the responsibilities of partners/fathers? Just a thought. - Nel Matheson
  • Can we please clarify that not all single parent families were moved from PPS to Newstart - only those who were grandfathered by the Howard government when they brought in the changes many moons ago. It was Howard and his cronies that singled out and privileged a group of single parents, allowing them to recevie more than anyone in similar circumstances who didn't benefit from the grandfathering, or never received PPS in the first place (Not everyone's marriage ends before their youngest child turns eight). While I don't believe that Newstart is sufficient to live on and raise children easily I am very much against this focus that has been placed and what is in reality a small group of people. How about fighting to put everyone on PPS or to increase Newstart rather than just a few. - Carz
  • Well spoken, Vanessay. I cringe when I hear people go on about single mothers. As if it's only the mothers who deserve the social stigmatization and the husbands, boyfriends, partners don't. And as if the two parent family is so perfect. As if no two parent family lives off the taxpayer or eats junk food. But more important than the social stigma that attaches itself to their children is the poverty that disadvantages them and how it can be transmitted to the next generation. Many single mothers are close to the bread line and that's not good enough. Do we want them on the street? How would that look? It's no better than kicking someone when they're down. Un-Australian. - Rhoda
 
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There are seasons in life for soldiering on and there are times for moving away, and let me tell you this is the season for fleeing to warmer climes.


Island paradise. Thaw out in the holiday heaven of Vanuatu.

Close your eyes for a moment and imagine how you’d feel after not one, but two weeks on an island paradise.

We’re talking blue skies, azure-like waters, sandy beaches… For two whole weeks.

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Two weeks is the perfect break. Anything else and the change is just superficial.

The thing is, you don’t want to be boarding a plane just as you’re starting to thaw.

And really, two weeks a year is not too much to ask. How often have you said it was time you put yourself first? Here’s your chance to practice what you preach, and for the bargain-basement price of $1.

Need more encouragement? How about this?

The last time I checked the picture perfect Thai island of Koh Samui, the temperature was soaring north of 30C, Tahiti was promising clear blue skies, warm winds and 30C and we’re talking more of the same in Vanuatu and the Cook Islands.

If you’re anything like the rest of us, the agenda for the first week will take care of itself. Rest, relaxation and more of the same. You know how to do it. Grab your book or magazine, sunnies, some sunscreen and a cool drink and head to the pool. Or if you’re feeling really adventurous, lay a towel down at water’s edge.

A full week of that and you’ll be ready for some action. You might surprise yourself with what you accomplish, and the destinations surely will. Here’s a tiny sample of what they can offer.

Vanuatu

How do white sandy beaches, azure lagoons and pristine deep, lush rainforest sound? That’s just half the story of this holiday heaven.

With two weeks up your sleave, you can explore Vanuatu’s rich culture and history. Discover for yourself why the diving and snorkelling is rated amongst the world’s best. If you’re really up for some activity, you can hike up smoking volcanoes, indulge in a round of golf or a spot of fishing. And there’s always the fall-back option of a spa treatment.

 

The Cook Islands

The Cook Islands can be anything you want them to be. Spread over a staggering 2 million square kilometres in the middle of the Pacific Ocean, the Cook Islands take getting away from it all to a new level. Life here follows a traditional path with music and hospitality underpinning the warmth of the welcome. Do a little, do a lot. It’s all on offer. Choose a beach bungalow or opt for the definitive deserted island luxury experience.

 

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