• Tara, this article is brilliant. Agree with every word. - Nicole Madigan
  • Santorini..... - Katherine Basher
  • Very moving. Everyone I know who had done this has been touched by it. - Jo
  • Wonderful. I always ask myself will someone die if I fuck up? Will it matter in 3 months? And who fucking cares? Works for me. The swearing part is important apparently. ;-) x - Michaela C
  • Our focus on women and children and their difficulties ignores the elephant in the room. Where is the father/partner in this equation? Where is the support, financial responsibilty, active participation and general parental sharing by partners/fathers? Where are they all? Why has the focus on women and children left them invisible and unaccountable? Is it because we don't expect men to take care of their responsibilities, or is it too hard any issue to deal with? I fully acknowledge that there are many exceptions, including death of a partner, abuse and violence, and other diverse reasons, but is there no way we can broaden the debate to include the responsibilities of partners/fathers? Just a thought. - Nel Matheson
  • Can we please clarify that not all single parent families were moved from PPS to Newstart - only those who were grandfathered by the Howard government when they brought in the changes many moons ago. It was Howard and his cronies that singled out and privileged a group of single parents, allowing them to recevie more than anyone in similar circumstances who didn't benefit from the grandfathering, or never received PPS in the first place (Not everyone's marriage ends before their youngest child turns eight). While I don't believe that Newstart is sufficient to live on and raise children easily I am very much against this focus that has been placed and what is in reality a small group of people. How about fighting to put everyone on PPS or to increase Newstart rather than just a few. - Carz
  • Well spoken, Vanessay. I cringe when I hear people go on about single mothers. As if it's only the mothers who deserve the social stigmatization and the husbands, boyfriends, partners don't. And as if the two parent family is so perfect. As if no two parent family lives off the taxpayer or eats junk food. But more important than the social stigma that attaches itself to their children is the poverty that disadvantages them and how it can be transmitted to the next generation. Many single mothers are close to the bread line and that's not good enough. Do we want them on the street? How would that look? It's no better than kicking someone when they're down. Un-Australian. - Rhoda
  • I was just going to comment on the same thing! I worked on my first Apple computer in 1989, aged 20 - and they have the hide to say over 40 is too old to learn? We've "grown up" with computers too - they just can't do the maths. - HellB
  • We give aid to overseas countries to strengthen the education of women and female children so that future generations in those countries are not raised in poverty. The single most important factor contributing to low birth rate is education, yet we defund single mums in our own country so that their education and that of their children remains at a low level thereby perpetuating the poverty/ young mother cycle. Three stories from my life. Mother A became a single Mum when her husband was killed crossing the road at work to get his lunch. Mother B became a single M um when her husband was stung by numerous large ants while at work (anaphylactic shock) and Mother C's husband said "goodbye, I love you, I'll see you tonight" and got on a plane, flew interstate and texted her to tell her he'd had enough. That Mum has 5 kids, one with a disability. Furthermore, the waiting rooms of the oncology and specialties dealing with kids with disabilities like autism at the Children's Hospitals are full of single Mums whose partners have "had enough". There are also women and children who will lose their lives because they are too afraid to leave abusive situations because of the this constant putting down of women who access benefits and fear that they will not be able to survive on the benefit if they are able to muster the courage to leave. These are the mums these government decisions are hurting, not the VERY few Mums who think they can keep having kids to keep getting benefits. People who are determined not to work will always find a way not to work. The whole thing is demeaning to single parents and to women in our "advanced" country. - vanessay
  • Great article. Regarding Newstart and the $35 a day question - I have experience of living on this and came across this equally relevant blogpost regarding the topic - http://50shadesofunemployment.blogspot.com.au/2013/01/australia-on-35-day.html - Antonio
 
Categories:  Beauty, Style, Wellbeing

BEAUTY CABINET RESHUFFLE

As I was doing a bathroom cabinet reshuffle the other day, it struck me that I’ve never shared with you my love of the all-purpose product.

The product that promises – and delivers – on seemingly a gazillion things.

Remember in the movie, My Big Fat Greek Wedding, and the mum kept spraying everything and everyone with window cleaner? To fix things?

Well, all-purpose products are a bit like that only just a teeny bit kinder on your skin.

Every bathroom cabinet, first aid and travel kit should have at least one.

My eldest looked at me strangely when I handed him a bottle for his bag as he set off to Schoolies last weekend.

You know that look? Rolled eyes plus raised eyebrows and a certain resignation that they’re going to just have to go with it to shut me up?

Yep, that one.

I’m skilled at ignoring such looks and shoved the bottle in his bag next to the seven pairs of undies and 12-pack of two-minute noodles, telling him to USE IT should he get sunburnt, bitten by mosies, cut, or stung.

I can pretty much guarantee it hasn’t been touched but at least I was seen to be doing my parental job.

That product I armed him with? Necessity Fixaderm Skin Repair. Read on for more about it and four others that I ask a lot of.

 

Necessity Fixaderm Skin Repair (30ml, $14.95)

Necessity Fixaderm is a very light liquid blend of 11 quality essential and plant oils. The price is a winner and a little bit goes a long way. It’s said to help with preventing infection, repairing skin damage and speeding up healing so is ideal for cuts, minor burns, fungal infections, bites and stings. Even pimples. It won me over after I accidentally forgot to apply sunscreen to my décolletage (bad girl, bad girl) and then accidentally spent the morning on the beach, albeit a windy, rainy overcast beach. I still burned, of course. But – one application of this product and by the next morning the redness had gone.

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21 Responses to this article

  1. Alex November 22, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Natio Paw Paw Lip Balm. There’s no skin anywhere that this stuff can’t stick back together. I’m surprised surgeons don’t use it to superglue patients back to together instead of stitching them up.

     
    • Nikki @ Styling You November 22, 2012 Reply
       
       

      Bahahaa!

       
  2. JessB November 22, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Great article, thanks for sharing Nikki. I have never heard of the first product you mentioned, but I’ll be keeping an eye out for it in shops as I think it sounds great!

    One little thing – it was the Dad in My Big Fat Greek Wedding who loved Windex and used it to treat everything! Not the mum.

     
    • Nikki @ Styling You November 22, 2012 Reply
       
       

      Ah, see it’s been too long between viewings. Thanks Jess!

       
  3. bikerbetty November 22, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Pure Emu Oil. Works as a moisturiser as well as an anti-inflammatory. Kills sunburn. I swear by it.

     
    • Cheryl Gilbert November 22, 2012 Reply
       
       

      Emu oil has many benefits but is it removed from an emu that has been raised on a ranch and slaughtered to give us this precious oil that we then use for our own health and beauty. The fat that is removed from the back end of the emu is separated from the skin, ground and melted into a form of crude emu oil which is then sifted to remove any remaining particles of meat. It is then put in a centrifuge and filtered and then processed by using caustic chemicals, like bleach, to remove peroxides, metals and any other impurities left behind from the early processing methods. Why not use a plant-based natural alternative like lavender oil that is great for minor burns like sunburn and is also anti-inflammatory and analgesic as well. Mix with a carrier oil of sweet almond or jojoba for extra moisturisation.

       
  4. Lisa Mckenzie November 22, 2012 Reply
     
     

    I love the sound of that Fixaderm one Nikki must get me some of that when my things run out,I like Caroline’s cream,paw paw oitment and Sudocream,got that tip from a model in a magazine article and it’s cheap about $6 and it works on excema on your hands and dry skin and bites and stings etc etc.I also swear by aloe vera straight from the plant on stings and bites it works well too,every one should have one growing,I also have tea tree oil,lavenda and euclaylyptus oils on hand.
    I wish windex did fix everything that would be great!

     
    • Nikki @ Styling You November 22, 2012 Reply
       
       

      It worked a treat on my sunburn!

       
  5. Shepard November 22, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Paw paw! Tubes scattered throughout my work and house.

     
  6. Lydia November 22, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Paw paw cream, definitely! (a backpacker client of mine told me about it years ago – can be used for anything).

    But I do love Lanolips too – really helps dry skin generally. And Caroline’s Cream is great too. I take it travelling, because it can go on the whole body and so saves weight.

    Fixaderm looks sensational – I’ve never seen it in shops though. Will look more closely…

     
  7. ro.watson November 22, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Some of the stuff promoted in this article smells good from here….I once had the privilege of sitting with some women from the Ngaanyatjarra Lands who travelled to outside Laverton in W.A~for a meeting of women on domestic violence in 1999. Some women went out and caught big goannas. After eating, that night sitting around I was given some kind of oil(from an animal?) to apply to an elder’s shoulders sitting in front of me. We were bare-breasted and the song cycle began and kept going through the night….I got cold and had to go….I have a big aversion to “perfume”…. reckon rose-hip oil smells earthy and is a great moisturiser for old skin….

     
  8. ro.watson November 22, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Oh yes~ and agree paw paw ointment is a must have….

     
  9. Rhoda November 22, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Paw paw ointment with salt is even better but it stings a bit when you first apply so not suitable for babies or young children – Nutracell sea mineral and papaw I think it’s called.

    My husband who has the typical redhead’s soft skin and dresses wounds almost on a daily basis has just discovered solosite and thinks it’s the best thing since the proverbial. Doc put him onto it and I now buy it by the bucket load – heals and hydrates. Chemist item though – sorry if disallowed.

    Thanks for letting us know about your keepers, Nikki. Will try a couple. First sounds interesting for sure.

     
  10. ro.watson November 22, 2012 Reply
     
     

    On reflection~ 1998. I have tried that solosite stuff~ for some reason(old skin) I burn more easily in the kitchen~splattered fat and oil etc…I must remember to use a longer implement….

     
  11. Susan November 22, 2012 Reply
     
     

    The basic lanolin sold as nipple cream for nursing mums – exactly the same medical grade lanolin as the nicely packaged and scented balms but much cheaper. Such a relief to use as lip balm after years of using the ubiquitous petrochemical-based balms

     
  12. Rhoda November 22, 2012 Reply
     
     

    L’Occitane have a lovely organic shea butter for lips in a little tub – goes a long way. Best shea butter product I’ve ever come across. And their almond shower oil is to die for. I took someone’s advice and shave with it. Too much of a coward to do the wax thing.

     
  13. Tony Wt November 22, 2012 Reply
     
     

    “I burn more easily in the kitchen~splattered fat and oil etc”

    First aid for burns is ice. Needs to be done immediately, stop cooking and hold an ice block on the burn for 10mins or so. Hurts a bit but afterwards you won’t even know you burnt yourself. Large areas eg. steam burns stick your hand in sink full of iced water.

    Women are so far ahead of men with magic skincare products it’s not funny. All I have is Nivea skin lotion, big blue bottle, which stops me peeling after sunburn. Sounds like I need to try this paw paw stuff.

     
  14. YY November 22, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Red tubs and tubes of paw paw ointment – my son has eczema and we apply this before he jumps in swimming pools. Creates a barrier and moisturisers. Petroleum based apparently but it works a treat. great for the lips too. Always get friends and family to buy some for us when they come to visit. Oh and the black tubes of paw paw ointment – pathetic.

     
  15. Thea November 23, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Pawpaw ointment is da bomb! If you start applying it daily in early pregnancy it really helps prevent cracks when breast feeding. Also good for stretch mark prevention. Not a balm, but using a styptic stick (stops bleeding from nicks while shaving) is also great on pimples.

     
  16. Kylie J November 23, 2012 Reply
     
     

    As an eczema/psoriasis/dermatitis person (oh the joys of my Viking heritage) I have tried everything.

    I swear by Moo Goo. The eczema and psoriasis balm is wonderful and the full cream is great. You can buy it in the health food store or online. They have a great Facebook page. They have a great facial moisturiser, but i just use the full cream.

    I like the idea of paw paw as a way of protecting the skin from salt and chlorinated water though because it means I might just be able to swim this summer.

    Moo Goo has just brought out a gradual tanner. It’s fantastic, but be warned if you’re light skinned – one application and it’s quite dark. The great plus is that I’m not allergic to it.

     
  17. Louisa November 28, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Nikki, thanks so much! I’m a former beauty products tragic. Becoming a Mummy has sent me off the rails, and I’m please that you are helping me get right back there – now which should I try first? More than a little taken by the Trilogy Everything Balm……

     

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