• "When a sick fourteen month-old baby needs her mum….or dad. No it’s not. There’s no contest. Sick baby wins!" "If sick baby wins", why was it ok for sick baby to wait 5 days? Mum requested on Monday... for leave on Thursday. And then when granted leave, mum spends the afternoon doing radio and television interviews. Seems more like sick baby wins when it's politically convenient. We've moved from misogyny and onto sick babies, this Parliament's new football. - Joe
  • Hey KF, more power to you and me and anyone who has to FIGHT for our loved ones who can't fight for themselves. One day at a time. Sometimes one hour at a time. Metoo- here's hoping you never have to walk a mile in our shoes- for a multitude of reasons, and my last word- I don't see it as "locking up" my aunt I see it as an honor to make sure she is safe, looked after and comfortable for the rest of her life Good luck to everyone, Robyn - Roby
  • Tara, this article is brilliant. Agree with every word. - Nicole Madigan
  • Santorini..... - Katherine Basher
  • Very moving. Everyone I know who had done this has been touched by it. - Jo
  • I have to disagree with a few things in this article. Mothers have never been better supported than they are now. 12 years ago I didn't get a baby bonus and I only got 16% childcare rebate. Now families get 50% rebate on childcare. 12 years ago there was no paid maternity leave option from the government and the paid maternity leave from my work was 6 weeks, now it's increased to 8 weeks. A colleague told me last year she took 8 weeks at half pay (over 16 weeks) and then got 18 weeks paid maternity leave from the government so she could take over 8 months off with pay. There is also paternity leave available now where I work which wasn't available 12 years ago. However I do agree with Tara Moss about Newstart. Giving single parents the Newstart allowance is pathetic and I challenge any politician to try and live on it for 6 months and pay a mortgage or rent and see how they survive. We also still have a long way to go on gender equality when it comes to pay scales but hopefully with more women in the workforce it will help the cause. - Not That Bad
  • Wonderful. I always ask myself will someone die if I fuck up? Will it matter in 3 months? And who fucking cares? Works for me. The swearing part is important apparently. ;-) x - Michaela C
  • Our focus on women and children and their difficulties ignores the elephant in the room. Where is the father/partner in this equation? Where is the support, financial responsibilty, active participation and general parental sharing by partners/fathers? Where are they all? Why has the focus on women and children left them invisible and unaccountable? Is it because we don't expect men to take care of their responsibilities, or is it too hard any issue to deal with? I fully acknowledge that there are many exceptions, including death of a partner, abuse and violence, and other diverse reasons, but is there no way we can broaden the debate to include the responsibilities of partners/fathers? Just a thought. - Nel Matheson
  • Can we please clarify that not all single parent families were moved from PPS to Newstart - only those who were grandfathered by the Howard government when they brought in the changes many moons ago. It was Howard and his cronies that singled out and privileged a group of single parents, allowing them to recevie more than anyone in similar circumstances who didn't benefit from the grandfathering, or never received PPS in the first place (Not everyone's marriage ends before their youngest child turns eight). While I don't believe that Newstart is sufficient to live on and raise children easily I am very much against this focus that has been placed and what is in reality a small group of people. How about fighting to put everyone on PPS or to increase Newstart rather than just a few. - Carz
  • Well spoken, Vanessay. I cringe when I hear people go on about single mothers. As if it's only the mothers who deserve the social stigmatization and the husbands, boyfriends, partners don't. And as if the two parent family is so perfect. As if no two parent family lives off the taxpayer or eats junk food. But more important than the social stigma that attaches itself to their children is the poverty that disadvantages them and how it can be transmitted to the next generation. Many single mothers are close to the bread line and that's not good enough. Do we want them on the street? How would that look? It's no better than kicking someone when they're down. Un-Australian. - Rhoda
 
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OUR MIDWEEK MEDITATION: SING!

I love to hear a choir. I love to see the faces of real people devoting themselves to a piece of music. I like the teamwork. It makes me feel optimistic about the human race when I see them cooperating like that.
- Paul McCartney

 

Last week I witnessed a wonderful event.

My 12-year-old daughter, Anna has been in her school choir for a few years now, and was fortunate enough to be picked to sing at the Sydney Opera House as part of Sydney’s week long choral festival, showcasing students from New South Wales public schools.

 

The Australian Girls, National Boys & Gondwana Indigenous Childrens Choirs perform in a Qantas TV ad.
 

When the kids that formed the full choir came together last week for the performance, it was pure magic from the first moment. The sight of the concert hall filled with 700 children, and the sound of their voices filling the air around us, was quite extraordinary, as too were the other musical offerings of the night, with everything from big bands, wind and string orchestras on offer.

There’s no doubt that without singing – the sound of the human voice in all its varied glory – the world would be a poorer place; but why exactly do we sing? After all, we are the only land-based animal that indulges in the activity – apart from the odd singing dog that is!

Birds sing, of course, gibbons (apparently) sing, and the rest of the world’s singers – whales, dolphins, sea-lions and seals, are marine mammals. Research suggests that it’s a predator thing – singing is a sound that could attract enemies, so only those animals able to get away quickly – birds and the tree-based gibbons for instance – or those that have very few predators, such as the water-based singers, and humans, indulge in what might otherwise be the somewhat dangerous practice of letting predators know your location.

 

Birds’ songs may attract predators. Photo by RhiannonDaire on Flickr.

 

Who would have thought that the simple act of opening our mouths and allowing sound to come out, could be so fraught with meaning?

When you think about it, it is a rather extraordinary thing that the mechanism of using our lungs as an air supply, our larynx as a reed, and our head or chest as an amplifier, and the tongue as the mechanism for articulation, can produce everything from opera to rap.
Nobody knows exactly why humans started singing, or even when.

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12 Responses to this article

  1. Tracy October 24, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Hi, I agree about the singing! Until about 3 years ago I never even thought about but was just trailing the internet one day and an article came up about a place called The Music Practice in Surry Hills, NSW that had a group called ‘The Tone Deaf Clinic’ run by a great woman called Gillian. We all spent 10 weeks learning how to sing and it has been a fabulous experience for me. I have belonged to several choirs now and love it!!

     
    • Candida October 24, 2012 Reply
       
       

      Hi Tracy, thank you for your feedback – great to know so many people out there love to sing!

       
  2. Claire Duffy October 24, 2012 Reply
     
     

    You couldn’t be more right. I’ve spent over thirty of my fifty something years in choirs (and on boards that run them, and in governments that fund them) and one of the best things is that over that time choral singing has become SO widespread. At 18 I sang and it made me a dag. Now there are choirs and and A Capella groups all over the place, and it’s hip! Actually cool! To get involved in Sydney’s biggest and best choral organisation go here: http://www.sydneyphilharmonia.com.au/singwithus.html

     
    • Candida October 24, 2012 Reply
       
       

      Sydney Philharmonia! OMG I’m jealous….

       
  3. helenbea October 24, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Heartily agree with all that you say. A childhood filled with music, singing around the piano with family and friends while my mother, an able classical pianist, played folk songs, popular songs from the past, from stage shows and movies. It was a time gone by.
    My own career in teaching drew upon my musical training and family background in bringing that music into my classroom and the whole school.

    Starting a day with singing and some kind of outdoor physical activity, sets the kids up for the day. Clears the head and the whole energy system. Lesson breaks, same thing. Mind you, I can remember teaching with a guitar slung round the neck, singing the tables amongst other things, when I couldn’t access a piano.

    Singing is a universal language, putting oxygen into the lungs and uplifting the spirits. We can grow our soul through the power of the voice…why else do we resonate to some voices and not others.

    Participating in many combined choral events, festivals, eistedfoddau such as you mention, Candida, I totally understand your sense of awe at the sound. So often I was blown away by the sound of children’s voices singing in harmony as one. Thankyou for this piece. Good to know the power of choral music is still alive!

     
    • Candida October 24, 2012 Reply
       
       

      What a great response, Helen – you were lucky to have such a musically blessed family around you, and yes singing is a universal language.

       
  4. Amanda October 24, 2012 Reply
     
     

    I’ve sung as a child and now as an adult sing in an absolutely fabulous choir.I’ve always loved to sing, I sing along to music and in the shower, it’s n essential expression of joy for me. It must raise endorphins because after singing I feel happier, calmer, less stressed. Through my choir I’ve met many interesting people from my community, I’ve performed amazing pieces by classical composers, and wonderful new music by young Australian composers, the sort of thing you never hear on the radio, but that really speaks about this country. I really think everyone can sing with some practice- join a choir, take it slow, let your voice blend with the other singers, I guarantee you will love it

     
    • Candida October 24, 2012 Reply
       
       

      Hi Amanda…you are so right about choir singing. It’s a wonderful experience, thank you for commenting!

       
  5. sue bell October 24, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Singing is the greatest aerobic exercise you can do and it does not hurt your knees. When you sing you pump 40% more oxygen through your system. This increases the oxygen to the brain, helps you think, sets you going for the day and it is great for helping stop mild depression.

     
  6. Van Essa October 25, 2012 Reply
     
     

    I have recently joined the ukulele brigade and within all clubs, people are encouraged to sing. If you play then you must sing. It is such a joy! We have started performing and I can’t tell you how much I love the whole scene. Yes singing is wonderful but singing whilst playing is even more wonderful-erer.

     
  7. Shiralee October 26, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Several years ago feeling very depressed I went away on holiday for a week to Tamworth country music festival best thing I could have done. It is now a must each year. Great friends, great music what more could you ask for.

     

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