• "When a sick fourteen month-old baby needs her mum….or dad. No it’s not. There’s no contest. Sick baby wins!" "If sick baby wins", why was it ok for sick baby to wait 5 days? Mum requested on Monday... for leave on Thursday. And then when granted leave, mum spends the afternoon doing radio and television interviews. Seems more like sick baby wins when it's politically convenient. We've moved from misogyny and onto sick babies, this Parliament's new football. - Joe
  • Hey KF, more power to you and me and anyone who has to FIGHT for our loved ones who can't fight for themselves. One day at a time. Sometimes one hour at a time. Metoo- here's hoping you never have to walk a mile in our shoes- for a multitude of reasons, and my last word- I don't see it as "locking up" my aunt I see it as an honor to make sure she is safe, looked after and comfortable for the rest of her life Good luck to everyone, Robyn - Roby
  • Tara, this article is brilliant. Agree with every word. - Nicole Madigan
  • Santorini..... - Katherine Basher
  • Very moving. Everyone I know who had done this has been touched by it. - Jo
  • I have to disagree with a few things in this article. Mothers have never been better supported than they are now. 12 years ago I didn't get a baby bonus and I only got 16% childcare rebate. Now families get 50% rebate on childcare. 12 years ago there was no paid maternity leave option from the government and the paid maternity leave from my work was 6 weeks, now it's increased to 8 weeks. A colleague told me last year she took 8 weeks at half pay (over 16 weeks) and then got 18 weeks paid maternity leave from the government so she could take over 8 months off with pay. There is also paternity leave available now where I work which wasn't available 12 years ago. However I do agree with Tara Moss about Newstart. Giving single parents the Newstart allowance is pathetic and I challenge any politician to try and live on it for 6 months and pay a mortgage or rent and see how they survive. We also still have a long way to go on gender equality when it comes to pay scales but hopefully with more women in the workforce it will help the cause. - Not That Bad
  • Wonderful. I always ask myself will someone die if I fuck up? Will it matter in 3 months? And who fucking cares? Works for me. The swearing part is important apparently. ;-) x - Michaela C
  • Our focus on women and children and their difficulties ignores the elephant in the room. Where is the father/partner in this equation? Where is the support, financial responsibilty, active participation and general parental sharing by partners/fathers? Where are they all? Why has the focus on women and children left them invisible and unaccountable? Is it because we don't expect men to take care of their responsibilities, or is it too hard any issue to deal with? I fully acknowledge that there are many exceptions, including death of a partner, abuse and violence, and other diverse reasons, but is there no way we can broaden the debate to include the responsibilities of partners/fathers? Just a thought. - Nel Matheson
  • Can we please clarify that not all single parent families were moved from PPS to Newstart - only those who were grandfathered by the Howard government when they brought in the changes many moons ago. It was Howard and his cronies that singled out and privileged a group of single parents, allowing them to recevie more than anyone in similar circumstances who didn't benefit from the grandfathering, or never received PPS in the first place (Not everyone's marriage ends before their youngest child turns eight). While I don't believe that Newstart is sufficient to live on and raise children easily I am very much against this focus that has been placed and what is in reality a small group of people. How about fighting to put everyone on PPS or to increase Newstart rather than just a few. - Carz
  • Well spoken, Vanessay. I cringe when I hear people go on about single mothers. As if it's only the mothers who deserve the social stigmatization and the husbands, boyfriends, partners don't. And as if the two parent family is so perfect. As if no two parent family lives off the taxpayer or eats junk food. But more important than the social stigma that attaches itself to their children is the poverty that disadvantages them and how it can be transmitted to the next generation. Many single mothers are close to the bread line and that's not good enough. Do we want them on the street? How would that look? It's no better than kicking someone when they're down. Un-Australian. - Rhoda
 
Categories:  Fashion, Style

GROWN-UP MELBOURNE STYLE

On a recent trip to Melbourne, I hit the streets looking for inspiring stylish women to complement our previous reports on grown-up Sydney fashionistas. They weren’t hard to find.

And although each of them has a unique philosophy of what they find appealing and how they want to look, one thing unites all these gorgeous women – when it comes to fashion choices, age is not a factor. Amen to that.


Melissa, 54

If there’s attitude Melissa would like to banish, it’s the thinking that a woman has to change the way she dresses when she hits a certain age.

As owner and curator of the Albert & Victoria boutique in Albert Park, she is constantly encountering women who come in to her shop and sigh, ā€œI wish I were still young enough to wear this.ā€

And they are usually years younger than Melissa, whose shop is filled with beautiful limited-edition vintage and modern pieces sourced from abroad that she would want to wear herself. The irony is not lost on her.

ā€œIt’s as if hitting 50 is the beginning of the end of their youthfulness and individual style, and that is not the case,ā€ she asserts.

ā€œIt’s a matter of dressing for your shape and personality. You’ve got to be able to say, ā€˜That’s gorgeous, it would suit me, but I just won’t wear it the way the kids are wearing it.ā€™ā€

Melissa, who reminds me of former Paris Vogue editor, Carine Roitfeld, is rocking a cotton men’s T-shirt, Indian scarf and delicate gold-and-lapis bracelet all featured in her shop along with Sportsgirl jeans and fabulous Italian gold woven-leather boots she found in an op shop.

She gleefully bucks the trend of covering her grey roots by lightening the ends instead. ā€œI own my grey hair and wrinkles,ā€ she pronounces. ā€œI am what I am. I’m quite happy to be my age.ā€

 

 

Jennifer, 56

Jennifer emerged from a dark Elwood organic grocery store as fresh as a summer breeze.

In Melbourne on one of her twice-yearly visits from Queensland to see her daughter, Jo – who described her mother’s look as ā€œregalā€ – Jennifer was effortlessly casual-chic in a crisp cotton tunic top she bought from Zara in Edinburgh, a floaty cotton scarf from an outlet store in Bridge Road and Target jeans.

She is a discerning shopper. ā€œI’m quite fussy,ā€ she admits, her blue eyes twinkling. ā€œAnd I don’t want to have to mortgage the house for a dress I’m going to wear just once.ā€

It was Jennifer’s bright open smile and stylish silvery bob that really caught my eye. ā€œI’ve had my hair grey for about a year,ā€ Jennifer tells me.

ā€œI was hesitant to do it, but it’s just so expensive to have it coloured all the time and it grows so fast, so I always had dark roots.

Now people stop me in the street and say, ā€˜I love your grey hair!ā€™ā€

 

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9 Responses to this article

  1. Susan Michael October 26, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Gotta love Melbourne woman – always stylish – we Sydney gals need to get with the program and embrace fashion with a twist to suit our age – unfortunately the Sydney market doesn’t offer a great selection to over 50s like Melbourne stores.

     
  2. DJ October 26, 2012 Reply
     
     

    All beautiful, sexy women! It really shows that beauty is not about looking the same as you did at 20, 30, or even 40, but simply feeling comfortable and confident in your own skin. Gives off a radiance that is irresistibly attractive.

     
  3. Linda Robinson October 26, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Wish I could look like this! Alas I can only go to op-shops,and have trouble finding things for short people. I tend to dress in t-shirts and jeans or trackkie daks as all other times i’m in my uniform.

     
    • ellenni October 26, 2012 Reply
       
       

      linda honey of course you can look like them it just takes a little planning.
      opshops have heaps of good stuff. its all about how you wear them.
      short girls should think like tall girls. never let someone say you are too short for something you like. its all about attitude.
      when you get older you realise some people have too much too say about you.
      take a good look at these ladies you admire and you will see its mostly very simple dressing. its all about the accessories.
      one of my friends is very wealthy but she usually goes into target at the beginning of the season and buys her whole wardrobe, she says that the clothes are in fashion for one season so wear them all that season then toss them out. she also says dont buy too much. wear them to death. however she carries a very good bag but her shoes are not but who cares she looks great.
      so get the best haircut you can afford and then go to the opshop and take a picture with you of the look you want. you dont have to spend too much money to look good. a couple of scarves and a couple of necklaces.
      i feel long hair after a certain age can make you look dowdy and make the outfit look like its decorated with a hair collar.
      so thats it have a good look at yourself and then at those you admire and modify it for yourself. wear whatever you like with confidence. should someone make a comment just say i didnt ask for your comment and if you cant say something nice dont say anything. sending you love and confidence.

       
  4. Linda Robinson October 26, 2012 Reply
     
     

    should add I live outside a small country town without access to markets etc. OR the income to buy at brand name shops!

     
  5. Belinda October 26, 2012 Reply
     
     

    They look fantastic! Inspirational.

     
  6. sue bell October 30, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Long hair can make you look dowdy after a certain age? what crap. I know there are probably only three women over 60 with long hair in Melbourne but I am one of them and love it.
    Hot day, put your hair in a single plait or two plaits. Two plaits really look great under a hat and you can thread beads through the plaits.
    Going out somewhere important? up in a loose bun or tumbled mess.
    Most days, wet, straight out of the shower, race down to coffee, very long and slowly turning silver.
    Hate the Brighton/Toorak bob looks so so so boring and non descript.

     
  7. Pono December 17, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Just now catching up on my blog rnediag– congratulations!! Now that we’ve met IRL :) I love knowing these additional tidbits about you. Thanks for meeting up with me Friday– I thoroughly enjoyed it and look forward to doing it again. :) xoxo

     
  8. kim January 12, 2013 Reply
     
     

    The only reason Melbourne women look good ,Is because we all look better in winter clothing.It’s easier to cover up .

     

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