• And if the male minders would let go of there grip of Julia like in her "mysogyny parliament speech, and not like her 'women for Julia' launch speech she will shine through even more. Julia is brilliant always when they do not speech write for her. I have a feeling Germaine you know exactly what Julia is going through with the constant media attacks . You are an amazing women who comes through as always comes through for the sisterhood. Cheers. - Emily C
  • There is a distinction between saying “it is inadvisable to do X (because it may lead to or increase the risk of Y)” and saying “you are not entitled to do X, and if Y happens to you then you’ve got what you deserve.” Reasonable people have no problem with the first type of statement: it’s not victim blaming and you have to be deliberately obtuse or stupid to claim otherwise. To assert that a person has, ex ante, alternative courses of action open to them that can reduce or increase their chance of being attacked isn’t to reduce the culpability of the perpetrator for attacking them, and it doesn’t thereby imply that the victim is themselves liable for being attacked. Besides showing intellectual dishonesty and/or infirmity, the “don’t blame the victim” campaigners show an unpleasant willingness to use the tragic misfortune of other people as an opportunity to push political barrows and grind axes. - MicheleS
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  • Last week, when the criminal record of Meagher's killer was made public, everyone seemed amazed person like him could be out of prison. While I was disgusted he was free, I wasn't surprised and it's because of attitudes like the ones Tracey describes. As a society we place blame on the victims of sexual assault, and therefore mitigate the responsibility of the attacker. There is some underlying idea that men are unable (or unwilling) to control themselves, which is rather insulting to the vast majority of men who do act decently. As I was buying my morning coffee today I was scanning the front of the paper and read the story of Milne's arrest for rape. The barista noticed and I said it was interesting the arrest had happened so long after the crime. The barista asked what did the girl expect, going back to some guy's hotel room. You hear stuff like this whenever these topics come up. Having no desire to start a fight with a virtual stranger I just replied that I had had people I didn't really know sleep at my house in the past and not once did I find it necessary to rape them. I will be buying my coffee elsewhere in the future. - kage
  • Thank you Germaine for the article. I do not need to be persuaded to vote for the PM and not just because she is a woman, but because she is a leader, a leader under extremely difficult and distressing circumstances; a leader with vision; sometimes having to compromise and take a smaller step forward than envisaged, however, any step forward in policy and reform is a step in the right direction. I try to use my voice against shock jocks on stations I despise, just to get up their noses, and get totally put down and ridiculed when objecting to their tactics, BUT Germaine YOU have a voice and a voice to be listened to. Please use YOUR VOICE as well as your writing skills to spread this message. - Vickie
  • Sometimes I just want to give up and call everyone who does not get how wrong such assaults are pigs. - ro.watson
  • Given that i wish to see the continuation of carbon pricing and allied green policies, the roll out of the (real) NBN, the funding of the NDIS and the Gonski education reforms, i have no hesitation in voting Labor on September 14th. I will be extremely happy to see PM Gillard retain her position. - sally b
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  • This is so much like my own story. I have so much trouble getting people to understand, even 6 years after separation that he will always be the father of my kids, that he is deserving of respect, even if he has not been the best husband, that I cannot live with him, I do not feel romantic any more but I want him to be the best person he can be because my kids love him and he is their hero, no matter what I say. And I worry so much about the kids and I hope they don't grow up without the skills for a beautiful relationship. So I hope all goes well. I look forward to seeing how you manage. - Bron
 
Categories:  Beauty, Must see, Style

DO YOU REMOVE YOUR MAKE-UP EVERY NIGHT?

I woke up on the morning of my 30th birthday… *cough* …a few years ago and a bit like a New Year’s resolution, decided to use this milestone to rule a line in the sand of my skincare routine.

I was going to be all grown up and proper like.

 

Photograph by Steve Hiett.
 

That three-step program the lovely Clinique ladies in their white lab coats taught me many years before that? I was actually going to execute it. Not just once a day. But TWICE.

Gosh, horror.

Yes, I was determined to never again go to bed with my makeup on.

The ultra-lazy-girl in me had been kicked to the bathroom floor. I was not getting any older… And nor was my skin.

I never told anybody about this “resolution”. So, why am I telling you now?

Because a survey by Olay this week offered me solace. That I hadn’t been alone in my makeup removal laziness.

Because according to this survey of 7,000 Australian women, almost half of Australian women who wear make-up (46%) admit they do not always remove their make-up before going to bed.

Are you one of them? Or are you Miss-Goody-Makeup-Remover-Two-Shoes?

For me to make removing makeup part of my nightly skincare routine, I had to get smart. I knew if I set myself up with a routine that involved a double cleanse, exfoliation, pressure point massage and face mask, I’d never make it to Day 2.

By the time I’m ready for bed. I’m ready. So I needed the cleansing thing to happen as quickly as it takes me to brush my teeth.

A two-minute cleanse sounds do-able, doesn’t it?

If all that’s standing between you and removing your makeup every night is a two-minute solution, listen up because I’ve got the lazy-girl-beauty answers you’re looking for.

The skincare purists will probably not approve of my short-cuts but I stick by my post-30s motto: “any skincare routine is better than none”.

 

Here’s what’s always in my bathroom at the night-time ready:

 

1. Yes to Blueberries Facial Towelettes$9.95 for 30.
I’m not overly fussy on the kind of wipes I have on hand should the going get lazy at night time but of all the ones I’ve tried, these are the ones that I love the most on my skin. They’re 99% natural and free of parabens too. Hot tip: keep a pack on your bedside table. That way if you’re REALLY tired (you know those nights when the vinos may have got the better of your skincare routine good intentions), the makeup still comes off.

 

 

2. The Jane Iredale Magic Mitt – $32.

Think of this like a cleaning cloth for your face. It’s made from micro-fibre and just requires water to remove your makeup and cleanse your skin. You know it’s working because the makeup is now on the cloth, not your face. The mitt rinses out after use. I usually wash mine every week as well.

 

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26 Responses to this article

  1. Alex September 27, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Or you could pick up some macadamia oil in the supermarket for $6 and some microfibre cloths from the supermarket for $3 each and have a routine that takes 30 seconds get even the most stubborn makeup off, balances the oil in your skin fills it full of essential oils and leaves it lovely and healthy and spend the rest of the money on something you enjoy.

     
    • Nikki @ Styling You September 27, 2012 Reply
       
       

      Thanks for that tip Alex!

       
  2. The Huntress September 27, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Yep, I’m one of the 46% who do not always remove their makeup. Usually out of sheer laziness. I’m much better when I actually establish my night time routine: Mecca Cosmetica Clean Slate make-up remover, Mario Badescu Keratoplast Cream Soap, Mario Badescu ALPHA Grapefruit Cleansing Lotion, followed by Mario Badescu Vitamin C serum, La Prairie Cellular Time Release moisturiser and eyecream. It’s a long routine, but for some bizarre reason I get much better at taking my makeup off if I make it into a ritual, rather than just using a cotton pad to remove makeup and fall into bed.

    I must say that I am really impressed with the Mario Badescu range (available from Kit Cosmetics) – it is high quality and VERY affordable with a great range of products to cater to many different skin types and problems.

     
    • Nikki @ Styling You September 27, 2012 Reply
       
       

      Creating a ritual definitely helps – and thanks for your recommendations!

       
  3. Ro. Watson September 27, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Suggestion for the lazy among us~don’t wear make-up at all~ then, you won’t have to remove such products from your face…

     
    • Nikki @ Styling You September 27, 2012 Reply
       
       

      True but still good to cleanse your skin from day’s grime.

       
  4. Lisa September 27, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Yes i do remove all my makeup every night,I’m good like that ,just habit I suppose but I ususlly use a cleanser and a makeup wipe to get it off and when I have gone all out and done the fancy makeup I use Simple eye makeup remover .I also cleanse in the morning in the shower.

     
  5. MoniqueN September 27, 2012 Reply
     
     

    I’m guilty of leaving makeup on – the morning after my 30th birthday I awoke looking like the bride of dracula wandered out of my bedroom for a glass of water and nearly gave my housemate a heart attack.

    I use the wipes, but I never thought of keeping them by the bed – will be implementing this in the future.

     
    • Nikki @ Styling You September 27, 2012 Reply
       
       

      It’s a good trick!

       
  6. amd September 27, 2012 Reply
     
     

    I don’t wear much make up, and absolutely leave it on, have for my whole life – even when i was younger and wore heaps more, and even if I go somewhere special and wear more than usua. Just don’t care. Never will. Another one of the things people think you have to do, but don’t! A quick shower in the morning removes all manner of sins.

     
  7. Anne September 27, 2012 Reply
     
     

    I’m definitely a fan of keeping the face wipes handy on the bedside… that way I can even cleanse while i’m reading my book! (sort of).
    Alas, Nikki I did go and order a Clarisonic a while back after you had raved about it on this site, but unfortunately it doesn’t seem to agree with my skin – made it tight and seemed to make wrinkles look worse. Maybe because it’s meant for younger skin than mine… :(

     
    • Nikki @ Styling You September 27, 2012 Reply
       
       

      Oh Anne, I’m really sorry about that. I’m 45 and it’s enhanced my skin.

       
  8. Aeron Winters September 27, 2012 Reply
     
     

    I remove my makeup faithfully every night. I have done since my early twenties when I found out that going to bed with dirty skin was going to age my skin prematurely. I use makeup remover wipes then use my trusty Dove 2in1 cleanser-toner in one (see two in one step makes it faster and cheaper). I exfoliate twice a week, mask once….all while in the shower, usually with conditioner on my hair. I follow it up with a slather of eye and face creams and I’m good to go.

     
    • Nikki @ Styling You September 27, 2012 Reply
       
       

      Top pre-bedtime skincare routine marks for you! Impressed.

       
  9. Ro. Watson September 27, 2012 Reply
     
     

    All I can contribute here is ~it is raining mascara~ a long time ago in a far away place(which is actually quite nearby)~at an outdoor concert~ it rained….anyway that stuff makes my eyes itch..

     
  10. Miss Pink September 27, 2012 Reply
     
     

    I am big on removing my makeup. The only time I get lazy is when I’m getting in at 3am from a boozy night and that’s what I have makeup removing wipes for, although I ususally use them first and then cleanse anyway.

    Want to talk laziness? It’s moisturising my face at night. That’s where I’m lazy! ;)

     
    • Nikki @ Styling You September 27, 2012 Reply
       
       

      Like the cleansing it’s a pre-bedtime ritual for me … took a while to take hold but now can’t do without!

       
  11. Ro. Watson September 27, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Oh Miss Pink~ have you read Olive Pink’s story… via long time ago Alice Springs~ check this book out~ meanwhile I am thinking of Nina Simone’s “Laziest Girl(or was that”Gal”) in Town” song..

     
  12. Van Essa September 27, 2012 Reply
     
     

    I can’t get into bed without washing my face and feet. Yeah I know, it’s a bit strange to have to wash your feet but as I’ve aged I have learnt to just rinse them under the shower.

    I have always washed off make-up and I cleanse and moisturise twice a day in the shower. I am 50 and do not have wrinkles although I believe that might be more genetics than beauty routine.

     
  13. Tara September 27, 2012 Reply
     
     

    I’ve been doing the 3 step Clinique thing twice a day since I was 20… I recently went with a friend to stock up & we’re both in our *cough* 30 + 10+’s.. The ultimate insult came when the lady at the Clinique counter told my friend that her ‘more mature’ skin needed different products now. She dismissed me with a wave of her hand- You’re skin is fine honey!
    B.I.A.T.C.H
    I have Botox, I have restalyn, I have microdermabrasion regularly. My friend has chronic skin cancer that requires her to apply acidic creams to burn them all off.
    Moral of the story? Maybe those Clinique women aren’t so bright, & maybe make-up removal isn’t *all* there is to beautiful skin.
    Each to their own I say!

     
  14. Anna Franklin (@AnnaFranklinVP) September 27, 2012 Reply
     
     

    I had trouble getting this done before bed so moved the time to doing it while my girls are in the bath. That way we have a little chat (well actually we are ALWAYS chatting!) and I always remove my makeup. Part of the routine, so I don’t forget. The later I left it, the more likely I was to forget.
    Love the post, Nikki. Always love your posts!

     
  15. @AnnaFranklinVP September 27, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Actually, quick question. Are Johnson’s babywipes not OK? I find baby wipes lots cheaper than ‘face wipes’. Thanks.

     
  16. Peta September 27, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Clique’s ‘take the day off’ balm works for me. I keep it in the living room on the coffee table and rub it onto my face when I’m watching television. Then all I have to do is wash it off and do a quick cleanse and I’m done. It just seems to make the process easier.

     
  17. Lucille Rogers September 30, 2012 Reply
     
     

    A rather late contribution but yes very faithful to bedtime routine to cleanse the day away. I use it as a ritual to not only clean & nourish my face but to wash away the day & take 5 mins to ‘be with me’ & check in on how I feel at the end of the day….always more peaceful going to bed if I do this :-) I have learnt a lot about skin & body care products of late & love that you mentioned the importance of paraben free – essential to avoid those nasties along with a long list of other junk in most lines these days sadly :-(

     
  18. Sally October 2, 2012 Reply
     
     

    I am shocked that there is even a question of not removing makeup before bed every time at night. Doesn’t everyone? Why is it optional?

    Are these the same people who also can’t be bothered brushing or flossing their teeth, washing their hands or wiping their arse after #2′s, or any number of hygiene rituals that are necessarily performed, because simply it’s NOT THAT HARD!! What do your pillowcases and bed linen look like caked in makeup and grime you dirty, lazy people? YUK!

    I can’t ever recall a single time – even when I was my most exhausted, drunk or sick, when I didn’t have the time or presence of mind to quickly wash my face with a facial cleanser!

    A pump of lathering Neutrogena ‘fresh foaming cleanser’ is the quickest, most efficient and simplest way to wash away the day’s grime and makeup under a running warm tap in less than 30 seconds (and I wear lots of foundation, eyeliner and heavy mascara – all removed easily). Then a slather of my favourite moisuriser has time to absorb before my head hits the pillow.

    I’m personally not a fan of the wet makeup wipes unless I’m travelling, in which case they are convenient – I think they are too coarse, drag and stretch the skin and leave residue that’s not necessarily good for the skin. Always feel I need to rinse and moisturise after using them.

    Can’t go wrong with water and a foaming cleanser if you ask me!

     
  19. Ella October 18, 2012 Reply
     
     

    I can’t imagine going to bed without removing my make up, brushing/flossing and a shower. So relaxing, I’m asleep within moments – ahh.

    I’ve never understood why people go to bed dirty and then bathe in the morning. I have a quick shower in the morning too just to freshen up, before I get dressed.

     

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