• What relentlessly distressing stories some of the respondents have to tell. Their problems don't sound like they're caused by lack of diagnosis or increased rates of prescription - rather show need for more community support, better training of social workers, police, journos etc. Just wonder how much contact Concerned and others have with parents in similar situations - and if there's some of way of putting you all in touch with each other - if you're interested? - miranda
  • It's OK Sue Bell , John Jay has obviously been " away " again . He craves attention , so if we just ignore him he will no doubt wander back to his " right wing hate sights " like Bolt & Ackerman et al. Meanwhile John Jay , suggest nice cuppa and a lay down . - Carole/m
  • Sly Place has just about said it all on Rudd's narcissism. I'd only add that he can't pretend to be naive about the effect his outbursts have had on Labor. And if it was a former staffer who changed Rudd's mind on gay marriage, pity he didn't listen when the bloke was actually employed in his office. - miranda
  • Does Australia have parent training resources? I've read that parent training is helpful in managing the behaviour. - Rhoda
  • I used to be the type who would sit on top of the heater; freeze to death in winter; and lived in (then) skivvies and jumpers. Then the big M set in!! Now I wander around the house barefoot. I own1 jumper and 1 thick cardigan. The only difference in what I wear to work is I have a raincoat and scarf for winter .... otherwise exactly the same clothes all year around. That's your "internal heater" working for you ... - Schoom
  • I love your rules,especially the one....treat others like you wish to be treated. That was big in our home as I was growing up and it is just as big in my home now. Along with everyday random acts of kindness....if we always live by these two rules then we can be sure to find a real inner happiness.x. - Debyl1
  • I hate no one. I am cruel to no one. I am a mere mortal who The Divine has chosen to speak to. The Divine needs no proof, He is above all human failings. Mock me, it does not hurt, i forgo all pride and sily human comforts. All can read "The Message" and accept it or not. I do not judge. I pass one what i am told. - John Jay
  • Well said Benison. - Sally
  • Dear John Jay, like you I also have had divine revelations, wonderful revelations on the need to love all human kind, on compassion and empathy. The Divine revealed to me that he/she has no interest whatsoever in who has sex with whom. Now let me make it very clear, you cannot prove these divine revelations that you claim you have, no more can I. All you can prove is your unrelenting hatred of anyone who does not subscribe to your very sick philosophies. So Hooplarians, come join me in the "Church of the Unbelievers of John Jay's Divine". Let us be free of his hatred and cruelty. - sue Bell
  • Hmmm, lets hope that John Jay fella doesn't get wind of this! - Will Marshall
 
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C’MON BOYS & GIRLS. PLAY NICE!

Back when I was growing up going to the footy was a bruising affair.

Often times you would need to stand for the whole game, and it was an environment in which men, upon the sounding of the opening siren, would turn into Neanderthals who spewed forth abuse of every type, from sexual to racial.

It was taken for granted that men, both players and spectators, could act that way and any women – should they be bothered attending – were expected to put up with it, given they had entered a man’s world.

Football codes around Australia – but I speak mostly of AFL as that is my code – realised that such circumstances were not only out of place within modern society, they were also bad for business. Footy remains a place of passion, fervour and of agony and joy, but now such abuse is singled out and not only frowned upon but can lead to penalties for both players and spectators.

It seems however that those blokes who were abusive at the footy have now just drifted online to political blogs.

In research for my book, The Rise of the Fifth Estate, I found that while more blogs on Australian politics were written by men, when it came to the participation of women on blogs – whether on the mainstream sites or independent blogs – the tone of the debate was the crucial driver.

News sites that want to be trusted need to realise that content now includes the comments as well as the articles.

Just as the AFL saw the way to expand their business was to encourage an environment where both men and women would feel comfortable, so too must news sites know that unless they want to remain bound to a shrinking market they need to create an environment where all feel able to participate.

 

One of the most astonishing openings to an article on social media I’ve ever read was by Helen Lewis writing for the New Standard last November when she wrote: “You always remember the first time someone calls you ugly on the internet. I imagine – although it hasn’t happened to me – you always remember the first time someone threatens to rape you, or kill you, or urinate on you.”

I wonder if Prime Minister Julia Gillard can remember the first time she read such abuse directed at her?

My guess is not, so often and for so long has the criticism been flung her way.

Of course she, as our first woman Prime Minister, must deal with a louder volume of abuse than do most women – including those who work in the media – but nonetheless she is certainly not alone in having been the victim of such abuse.

It was interesting to see her call out the abuse she receives for what it is when in her marathon press conference she referred to “the misogynists and the nut jobs on the internet”.

As someone who has a number of relatives who favour the more conservative side of politics I already receive numerous emails from them wondering what I have to say about the “facts”  regarding the welfare received by asylum seekers or the horrors of our government debt.

No doubt many readers have also come across such bits of what they see as “disinformation”.

Thus the Government and the Prime Minister already operate in this age where any controversial policy position can lead to a flood of excremental information via email, blogs, Twitter and talk-back radio (usually the first place any internet sewerage is flushed into the mainstream).

In the midst of this mass of information, the Prime Minister threw the problem back onto her questioners. She noted, “despite the changing economics of the media industry, I think highly professional, ethical journalism will become more valued, not less valued”. Such rosiness however came with a responsibility and a challenge.

The Prime Minister saw the reason for this high value is because people “will look within that sea of stuff for the things that they believe they can trust, which puts all of you in an interesting position.”

An interesting position indeed – especially as the traditional media becomes increasingly merged with social media – where consumers are no longer passive, but instead readers who want to be part of the conversation.

Such a point will mean that not only will readers look for news they can trust, they will increasingly look for environments they can trust – and for women (and many men) this will include environments where misogyny and abuse won’t be tolerated.

 

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*Greg Jericho writes a weekly blog for ABC Online’s The Drum. From 2006 to 2011 he worked as a Commonwealth public servant, mostly in the film policy division. He has a PhD in English literature and an honours degree in economics. He also writes, blogs, and tweets as his alter-ego, @GrogsGamut.

 

 

 

 

The Rise of the Fifth Estate is the first book to examine the emergence of social media as a new force in the coverage of Australian politics. You can read an extract here.

Using original research, Greg Jericho demystifies the Australian political blogosphere and tackles head-on some of its key developments, such as: The way that Australia’s journalists and federal politicians use social media and digital news; the motivations of bloggers and tweeters; the treatment of female participants and the eruption of  Twitter wars.

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11 Responses to this article

  1. Wendy Harmer August 30, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Hear, hear, Greg. I don’t mind if people comment anonymously or use any kind of made-up name…it’s the insulting personal invective and whacko conspiracy theorists who get the heave-ho around here. Thankfully not too many of them!

     
  2. Bitte boo August 30, 2012 Reply
     
     

    I’m in the middle of a second year media ethics uni course and am finding the last 6 months ‘media” watching to be astonishingly absurd. I think the majority of MSM mustn’t have had any ethics education. Well done Greg (I’ve purchased your book to read in the break).

     
  3. cate August 30, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Well said, Greg. I have filtered out the #auspol hashtag on Twitter for many of the reasons above. Most of it is senseless, childish name-calling amidst explosions of hot air and abuse.
    I have better things to do with my time than read that tripe.

     
  4. Leesa August 30, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Play nice indeed! I wish everyone; from responders here (Mez in mind) to blog comments to politicians…just everyone would understand that expressing different opinions enhances our experience but personal insults demean and alienate both the insulter and the insulted. Let’s bring back basic manners and common courtesy!

     
  5. Pam Newton August 30, 2012 Reply
     
     

    There are some days where I just feel like closing all accounts and going offline. Today feels like one of those days having just had a look at the really disturbing abuse and images that are being sent to Charlotte Dawson’s twitter stream. Why is she being targeted? Because yesterday she drew attention to the issue of bullying on twitter.

    That old saying about free speech not being free, that there’s a cost …. Charlotte is paying an unreasonable cost today.

     
  6. MichelleP August 30, 2012 Reply
     
     

    This makes me think of the time i was blocked on twitter by someone who didnt like the tone in my tweets to her. i didnt even think I had a tone – I felt I was being succinct, as 140 characters forces you to do. The fact that I still think about it rather than forget it makes me annoyed with myself but what it makes me think is that often what one person says can be interpreted differently by another person reading it. This is obviously different to personal attacks on people, but I have to remind myself that what I am saying sometimes doesnt correlate with what another person reading it thinks and the written word can be different to the spoken word.

     
  7. Aeron Winters August 30, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Well said Greg. I get tired of all the trolls who, lacking in any real social skills, launch personal attacks on those of us who like to participate in the commentary on websites such as this. I look forward to reading your book.

     
  8. Pam Newton August 30, 2012 Reply
     
     

    John Birmingham was ahead of the tide when he blogged a few weeks back that he would be tightly moderating his pages from here on in.

    http://www.theage.com.au/opinion/blogs/blunt-instrument/why-ill-be-kicking-you-off-this-blog-20120808-23u7p.html

     
  9. Sara September 1, 2012 Reply
     
     

    SO true Greg. I have stopped reading newspapers, which would have been unthinkable even 12 months ago, and I now get most of my news online. I want to have quality commentary and trustworthy news delivered in an environment that I feel comfortable in. After Gina bought into Fairfax, it was the end for me.

     
  10. et_tu_Brute September 5, 2012 Reply
     
     

    You are correct Greg, however, it would seem to me that for some it is easier to be a gutless half-wit rather than play nice. The moment we start controlling these idiots, accusations begin to fly about the ‘nanny state’. My solution is simple… on all of these social media sites, particularly Facebook with ithe idiotic ‘Like’ button to click on, instead have a choice with just a simple ‘ignore’ button against the users profile/handle that we can activiate and forever be spared from their presence. It works for me whenever it is available :)

     

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