• disillusioned. I thought all New Zealanders were no nuke, peace loving dears. there goes that stereotype! - neeter
  • I just wish the pollies and others would represent the people in their electorate and keep their personal and religious beliefs to themselves. - neeter
  • I'm with you Sly Place. Obviously the writers resentments have built up over a long time. Why hold on to this for such a long time then put it in leter - when you could just talk it through if it bugs you that much. - sue
  • Well put Finnola Usually one of mine ring up a few days beforehand to remind us when one of the Grand children's birthday are coming up but we don't always see the grand kids when it's ours and they don't approve of our presents to them so now it's sort of tit for tit not that it always works out but at least we have our lives to lead and don't wait for them - Sarah
  • I love your last rule - sue Bell
  • Above is Meant to read " I love your approach Commonsensegirlonline" - Walkthetalk
  • I have to also agree with Benster and I'm still smiling with relief at ..I LOVE your approach and I want to join your club!! Boy I could contribute to drinking away some of that wine with like minded people & drowning some sorrows, you gotta laugh! ! One irritating point I have noted with both my 20 something year old daughters is they know all the right manners and thoughtfulness when it comes to their transient friends. But one thing I haven't learned to do is refuse them when they are in need even though I may be still seething with their lack of whatever from a previous episode. - Walkthetalk
  • 111 Homosexuals and their dark agents like Rudd, want to turn the world on it’s head. They want us all to abandon God-created instinct within .. and see perversion as healthy. They want the surrounding world to say black is white, sexually. They are campaigning to this end. There is already a form of tyranny in society where many are intimidated and too scared to say what they really think about homosexuality and the perverse use of the human body (the latter an area many like to screen from their minds). There are many strategies used .. like .. “I was born this way” .. “it is genetic” .. “fairness” .. etc. There is the word-weapon “homophobic” which means you have a disorder if you are godly. To be ungodly is to fail .. not to be godly. “Cisgender” is part of this .. the battleground of words. This most grotesque word is one more brick in the wall of human disobedience to God. Where is all this .. the gay campaign to turn the world on it’s head .. leading to? Happiness? No. You cannot be happy if you march away from God. You can only be unhappy in the end. This is why they use the word “gay” .. to sell to others they are happy .. when in truth they are deeply within on a soul level not at peace at all. John Jay. - John Jay
  • Tracey and Linda, I know you understand and it helps enormously - thank you so much for responding. I actually wish our son had a physical disability like a missing limb instead because then we might get help, support and understanding whereas now we are dealing with the unimaginable horror of domestic terrorism 24/7 and getting blamed and ostracised on top of everything else we suffer. I think somedays I am close to a breakdown but keep trudging on for the otber kids. That social worker sounds like some I have met but the worst was the police woman who I'd called after being attacked by our son....even when I begged for help and outlined that we were all hostages to domestic violence she was sarcastic and abusive to me in front of our grinning son. - Concerned
  • Couldn't have said it better myself Benster. In talking around to our friends and even just acquaintances, scratch just a little below the surface and so many parents are feeling the same sentiments as this "letter". All we are expecting from our children is to exhibit some of the niceties, good manners, respect and considerations they were brought up with. We have one son who works just 3 minutes away by car, but can't find the time to call by to see if we're still alive or not. In fact, it's become a family joke that one day one of them will realise they haven't heard from us for a while and will find us as skeletons in our armchairs! Another came completely empty-handed to a family get- together at a restaurant recently to celebrate hubby's birthday and a belated Mothers Day. The excuse was "I've been a bit busy and besides you two have all you want. Sorry." This was after he'd previously asked me what we'd like and I'd suggested movie tickets. Go figure! And as for borrowing of money - never again! One son borrowed a fairly hefty amount with the promise of repayment within 12 months "when I remortgage". Imagine our embarrassment when we had to ask for it back over 3 years later, after watching he and his wife spending money airy-fairy on frivolous "must haves". To say they were put out is a big understatement. :) These late 20's to mid 40 year olds have no shame or embarrassment about such things, behave as if it's their right and have even been heard to say "Well, you don't need it. You're getting on a bit now!" So we've formed a club called the POAHK Club. (Parents of .A..-Hole Kids) where we drown our sorrows in good red wine and plan our next overseas trips to spend the kids inheritance. Doesn't solve the problem of having selfish self-centred kids, but at least we can smile when they're around knowing we have a life of our own in spite of them. - commonsensegirlonline
 
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ANNA BURKE: TIME TO RISE ABOVE

She once said Federal Parliament was like “boarding school on steroids.” Now the woman who has the unenviable task of controlling the inmates says it’s time for our politicians to lift their game and set an example to the nation.

Anna Burke, the 47 year-old Labor MP from Melbourne, was made Speaker following Peter Slipper’s resignation, and after she had presided over extraordinary scenes from Canberra in which the PM let loose with her now globally-famous speech.

 

Speaker of The House, Anna Burke. Photo via nationaltime.com.au.

 

Burke said today there was sexism and misogyny in the parliament, just like other workplaces, but “the Parliament should be setting the tone and example for the nation, so we need to rise above some of those things,” she said.

“Some of the comments across the chamber are just untoward and unnecessary.”

Earlier in the week Burke told News Ltd’s Malcolm Farr that the job of Speaker was about “controlling and running and maintaining the dignity of the parliament, and that she took it very seriously.

“We’ve got a great institution here, a phenomenal institution, and the role has the utmost dignity to uphold.”

On ABC radio this morning she said that having a female Prime Minister had brought out the worst in some in the parliament and the wider community and that behaviour had deteriorated, especially in the hung parliament.

“But talk about the issues, not the personality and not their gender.”

Anna Burke is well-liked by the parliament but it’s an invidious position, a “minefield” which, as she told Farr is ““149 people versus me, my friends included supposedly.”

In response to a question from Farr about what she thought about being called ‘madam’ she responded with a laugh: “Well, I don’t run a brothel.”

Which is figuratively debatable.

But it seems Burke, who has shown wisdom and humour and absolutely no hesitation in throwing people out of the house – including the Leader of the Opposition – will be more than up to the task.

She comes into the prestigious position with an attitude that has been sorely lacking to date: that it’s time to rise above and get back to talking about policy.

Can we also take a minute to observe that her appointment also means that women now hold the top three positions of power in the land? Julia Gillard, Prime Minister. Attorney-General Nicola Roxon. Speaker of the House, Anna Burke.

Rise above, indeed.

 

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*Lucy Clark (Editor of The Hoopla) is a journalist and editor with almost thirty years experience in newspapers and magazines in Sydney, London, and New York. She has been published in The Sydney Morning Herald, The Australian, The Daily and Sunday Telegraphs, Vogue Living, Australian Art Review, and Gourmet Traveller. Most recently the Books Editor of the Sunday Telegraph, she has also contributed to the non-fiction books, Australia Through Time, and What Women Want. You can follow her on twitter: @lucykateclark.

 

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24 Responses to this article

  1. annabelle October 12, 2012 Reply
     
     

    The first ten times I heard my name mentioned on Radio National this year [Anna Bourke] I jumped out of my chair!
    I am getting used to it; however, I have been getting majorly ribbed by friends and family about being “the speaker!!!” [Generally, I'm good for a chat!]

    Good success to the OTHER Anna Burke!!!

     
  2. Linda Robinson October 12, 2012 Reply
     
     

    It is about time that the politicians did some work towards running the country and not worrying about the state of the PM’s vagina! Rise above the belt people and show some common decency- this goes for ALL political parties. Your constituents would like to see you actually DO something to earn the massive pay you say you must have!

     
  3. Carole October 12, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Plus Governor General, Lucy.

    Have just listened to ABC Radio 774 /
    John Feine ( not sure of spelling).

    It was great, nearly all callers supported the Prime Ministers speech.

    85% of SMS callers also onside including
    world famous Burns Specialist,
    Dr Fiona Wood ,whom I believe was responsible for treating many of the burns victims from the Bali Bombings.

     
    • Benison O'Reilly October 12, 2012 Reply
       
       

      That’s really interesting, Carole. Dr Fiona Wood is one of my personal heroes, after hearing an interview with on ABC Radio (Conversations with Richard Fidler). She’s also a former Australian of the Year and someone all girls can look up to for leadership.

      Congrats to Anna Burke. I think she will acquit herself well. We are unlikely to hear about unsavoury text messages from her at the very least!

       
    • lynda October 13, 2012 Reply
       
       

      Yes BUT the ABC are all lefties!!!

       
  4. Carole October 12, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Congratulations to Anna Bourke .
    Sure she will be a Great Speaker.

     
  5. sleybell October 12, 2012 Reply
     
     

    It would be great to see more dignity, manners, politeness together with passion and persuasion in Australia. From politics to talk back, twitter and all other public media. Rudeness and personal ataacks/observations should be the rare exception rather than the rule.parliament should lead by example. Most politicians are clever people and have the ability to display wit and good humour. I hope Anna can set the bar high and keep it there

     
  6. Glen October 12, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Hear, hear! It’s about time someone took a stand on the deplorable behaviour in Parliament.

     
  7. Glen October 12, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Congratulations Anna Burke, and I wish you good luck.

     
  8. Sleuthcity October 12, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Congratulations Anna Burke. Wow, a female PM, Speaker, Governor General – there’s a lot for Tony Abbott to get used to. Seriously, the man lacks judgment except in choosing his wife. Tony, here’s a tip, stay away from the words ‘dying of shame’ for a while, how about for the rest of your parliamentary career? And check out the signs you stand in front of before opening your mouth. Margie has already told you to stop wearing the budgie smugglers.

     
    • lynda October 13, 2012 Reply
       
       

      surely it is more mportant that Tony Abbottt has a good brain than the fact he wears “budgies” he is at least fit in the brain and the body!!! after all he is a Rhodes Scholar!!! Gillards only claim to fame is she is a perpetual liar…….and when she is charged over the AWU scandal HOPEFULLY she will go to jail with her mate Nuttall

       
  9. Van Essa October 12, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Hear hear from me as well. I just hope she can bring the politician’s into line. I for one am sick and tired of the way they behave toward each other. They seem to spend more time trying to get dirt on each other than fixing the problems within our country.

    As for the Australian Parliament being mysoginistic, four years ago I visited Parliament House with a bus load of year 6 children. The whole demeanour of the building is very masculine so I tried to find some things to show the girls that would allow them to have hope that they could, themselves, become politicians. I found a small area with photos and a few stories but I was gobsmacked by the response from our guide when I bought up the fact that Julie Bishop and Julia Gillard where in fact in charge of the parties at that particular moment in time. His response was to laugh and say something to the effect, “yes, aren’t we lucky the country is still floating?” Or some other such rot! I was absolutely appalled and wondered how those words impacted on those impressionable school kids. Both male and female.

     
  10. Jenny October 12, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Along with everyone else, I am hoping that the standard of parliamentary behaviour improves in the near future. So far, since the last election it has deteriorated markedly and is a disgrace considering the wage they receive and the responsibility they carry. Surely whoever is in opposition could accept the election results and work with the government for the betterment of the nation, rather than continually trying to catch them out and calling for resignations in the hope of forcing new elections. It is so disruptive and unproductive!
    Congratulations to Anna Burke, I have seen her in action and she deserves this position. I hope she is able to enforce some rules of good manners and politeness in the House.

     
  11. Annie Also October 12, 2012 Reply
     
     

    She has proven her credentials for the position in the Acting Speakers role. As well as being a woman I reckon she is just right for the job.
    OR; despite her being a woman, I am so glad she is now Madam Speaker. She brings humour and strength and a fairness to the Parliament. Now I just hope those naughty boys will start to listen to a person who knows how to do a good job.

     
  12. ro.watson October 12, 2012 Reply
     
     

    As lawyers,we bow to the court. Well I did a long,long time ago. This is a ritual before adversarial mode(which oddly ,I liked and did not like). I really hope Anna Burke’s presence gets the pollies behaving in their human dignity and presence without unlocking their shadows..

     
  13. mary October 12, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Boarding school on stereiods,,,

    More like the emotionally stunted adult class with issues

    They need to see psychiatrists

    pfft..

     
  14. lynda October 13, 2012 Reply
     
     

    I just wish Anna Burke would get a new hairdresser!!!……Yes women are running the country at the moment…and in my opinion they are doing a bloody awful job….I am very fearful of the mess they are creating for my children and grandchildren…..and their beholden to the Unions!!!!..AND Nicola Roxon is a “friend” of Gillard and would surely know about her past and her scandal involving the AWU…….they worked together at Slater and Gordon…..she is probably the reason why Gillard has been able to shut-down the media, but The Age has printed a few stories this week…She might have been able to get Michael Smith sacked from 2UE but she cant shut down his web page or his facebook page

     
    • Tony W October 13, 2012 Reply
       
       

      @Lynda
      Can you not see the blatant hypocrisy in your own statements? First you say “surely it is more important that Tony Abbottt has a good brain than the fact he wears “budgies” …..then in your next post you say “I just wish Anna Burke would get a new hairdresser!!!”

      If you want to be taken seriously you need to stop contradicting yourself. Yes, Abbott’s budgie smugglers are irrelevant, just like Burke’s hairstyle is irrelevant. So stop talking about them!

       
  15. JoanneH October 13, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Anna Burke was interviewed on ABC24 this morning and she looked and sounded great – and she was very well groomed. She said the Opposition needs to concentrate on using their opportunities in Question Time to do what they are there for – eliciting information from the Government.
    She will have to rule heavily on some of their ‘sideshows’. Christopher Pyne treats raising Points of Order, as a recreational game. Behaviour was improving under Peter Slipper, who appeared to treat both sides fairly. I trust Anna will do a good job.

     
  16. Rhoda October 13, 2012 Reply
     
     

    I’m sure she’ll do a good job and wish her well. I suppose her gender will make her a target for the lame and unfunny but she looks as if she can wear it.

     
  17. helenbea October 14, 2012 Reply
     
     

    Trusting that Anna Burke will continue to hold her own in ‘the bearpit’ as she has so ably demonstrated in her position of Acting Speaker.

    Congratulations to Anna Hoping she can bring some good manners and respect to our parliamentary members. As an ex-teacher, I am constantly amazed by the educational programs which focus on raising consciousness around bullying when so many leaders, public figures in the media, continue to set bad examples by their behaviour,

    Children and young people learn BY EXAMPLE!!! I’m certainly not perfect but I always said to the students ‘When you hear me swear, then you can swear’. Of course, it’s just the tip of the iceberg because behaviour as well as language needs to reflect respect both ways.

    Emotions and emotional baggage are a big challenge for us humans! :)

     

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