• "When a sick fourteen month-old baby needs her mum….or dad. No it’s not. There’s no contest. Sick baby wins!" "If sick baby wins", why was it ok for sick baby to wait 5 days? Mum requested on Monday... for leave on Thursday. And then when granted leave, mum spends the afternoon doing radio and television interviews. Seems more like sick baby wins when it's politically convenient. We've moved from misogyny and onto sick babies, this Parliament's new football. - Joe
  • Hey KF, more power to you and me and anyone who has to FIGHT for our loved ones who can't fight for themselves. One day at a time. Sometimes one hour at a time. Metoo- here's hoping you never have to walk a mile in our shoes- for a multitude of reasons, and my last word- I don't see it as "locking up" my aunt I see it as an honor to make sure she is safe, looked after and comfortable for the rest of her life Good luck to everyone, Robyn - Roby
  • Tara, this article is brilliant. Agree with every word. - Nicole Madigan
  • Santorini..... - Katherine Basher
  • Very moving. Everyone I know who had done this has been touched by it. - Jo
  • I have to disagree with a few things in this article. Mothers have never been better supported than they are now. 12 years ago I didn't get a baby bonus and I only got 16% childcare rebate. Now families get 50% rebate on childcare. 12 years ago there was no paid maternity leave option from the government and the paid maternity leave from my work was 6 weeks, now it's increased to 8 weeks. A colleague told me last year she took 8 weeks at half pay (over 16 weeks) and then got 18 weeks paid maternity leave from the government so she could take over 8 months off with pay. There is also paternity leave available now where I work which wasn't available 12 years ago. However I do agree with Tara Moss about Newstart. Giving single parents the Newstart allowance is pathetic and I challenge any politician to try and live on it for 6 months and pay a mortgage or rent and see how they survive. We also still have a long way to go on gender equality when it comes to pay scales but hopefully with more women in the workforce it will help the cause. - Not That Bad
  • Wonderful. I always ask myself will someone die if I fuck up? Will it matter in 3 months? And who fucking cares? Works for me. The swearing part is important apparently. ;-) x - Michaela C
  • Our focus on women and children and their difficulties ignores the elephant in the room. Where is the father/partner in this equation? Where is the support, financial responsibilty, active participation and general parental sharing by partners/fathers? Where are they all? Why has the focus on women and children left them invisible and unaccountable? Is it because we don't expect men to take care of their responsibilities, or is it too hard any issue to deal with? I fully acknowledge that there are many exceptions, including death of a partner, abuse and violence, and other diverse reasons, but is there no way we can broaden the debate to include the responsibilities of partners/fathers? Just a thought. - Nel Matheson
  • Can we please clarify that not all single parent families were moved from PPS to Newstart - only those who were grandfathered by the Howard government when they brought in the changes many moons ago. It was Howard and his cronies that singled out and privileged a group of single parents, allowing them to recevie more than anyone in similar circumstances who didn't benefit from the grandfathering, or never received PPS in the first place (Not everyone's marriage ends before their youngest child turns eight). While I don't believe that Newstart is sufficient to live on and raise children easily I am very much against this focus that has been placed and what is in reality a small group of people. How about fighting to put everyone on PPS or to increase Newstart rather than just a few. - Carz
  • Well spoken, Vanessay. I cringe when I hear people go on about single mothers. As if it's only the mothers who deserve the social stigmatization and the husbands, boyfriends, partners don't. And as if the two parent family is so perfect. As if no two parent family lives off the taxpayer or eats junk food. But more important than the social stigma that attaches itself to their children is the poverty that disadvantages them and how it can be transmitted to the next generation. Many single mothers are close to the bread line and that's not good enough. Do we want them on the street? How would that look? It's no better than kicking someone when they're down. Un-Australian. - Rhoda
 
Categories:  Entertainment, Television

ANGRY BOYS TOO CLOSE TO THE BONE

Huge damage can be wrought by incorrect labelling, particularly if you’re being treated for demonic possession when you are in fact a) homosexual, or b) epileptic.

I raise this in particular reference to Angry Boys, Chris Lilley’s third comedy series which has just wrapped on the ABC.

I think calling it a ‘comedy’ was a category error.

Not being snarky here – I watched mesmerised every week – but I don’t think misdirecting the viewers by implying it was going to be frigging hilarious did anyone any favours. Angry Boys wasn’t much funny at all, which would have been fine if people weren’t sitting there waiting, like expectant labradors with chocolates on their noses and a master who won’t give the signal, for laughs which didn’t come.

Angry Boys, as the title, let’s face it, suggests, wasn’t an ‘entertainment’.

It was a satiric character-driven drama, and was bleak, confronting, slow-moving, and moving; I wept more than I laughed, and from a quick poll amongst friends the final episode had people in floods of tears.

Comedically, though, it danced far too close to the Australian male bone for a local audience to find the humour.

People bitching about the swearing, dick jokes and racism missed the point; this is who we are. One of the most poignant moments, for me, was when the man-child surfer Blake Oakfield, wondering how to get his wife back and missing the point by the distance between Manly and Bells Beach, mused he just needed to get his empty ballbag filled with fake testicles.

To treat the show as the important social document it is (and risk sounding like a right ponce), I’ll say that the show put me less in mind of, say, Kath and Kim, and more of the oeuvre of Anton Chekhov. Chekhov’s plays The Cherry Orchard and The Three Sisters nailed the decline of aristocratic Russia to the wall at the turn of the 19th century, and, interestingly, The Cherry Orchard was written as a comedy but is generally considered a tragedy.

Not much happens in Chekhov’s plays. Plot is secondary to the characters who are trapped in denial, nostalgic for the past, rearranging the deckchairs of the present, and hopeful of a future that cannot eventuate. Time passes, the sisters don’t get to Moscow, and the cherry orchard cannot be saved. Every week I watched Daniel and Nate, S.mouse, Blake, Jen, and the boys in the lock-up, frustrated, confined by their character and limitations, not understanding that resistance is futile. Angry Boys, for most of its 12 episodes, was raw, uncompromising existentialism, and truly compelling.

I’d call it ‘great’ television, in the original sense of the word. But a comedy? Not so much.

The difficulty we run up against in Australia is that our television industry has all the nuance of a Jager shooter. Or, more pertinently, the genre sections at an airport bookshop. We’ve got a very limited number of ‘boxes’ – Reality. Doco. Panel. Drama. Current Affairs. Comedy – and if a show doesn’t fit comfortably into one of them we’ll smoosh it in regardless. ‘Comedy’ is simply the box shaped least unlike Angry Boys (also the box most likely to attract viewers and sell dvds, and there’s nothing wrong with that).

There does, actually, seem to be a new genre forming, which is ‘Wednesday night on the ABC’.

It’s become this kooky haven for creatively daring, adventurous shows which aren’t quite comedy, aren’t quite documentary, aren’t quite anything, but are really worthwhile if you suspend your mainstream expectations. Besides Angry Boys they’ve recently screened series three of Hungry Beast, which was stunning, but utterly defies categorisation, Lawrence Leung’s daggy but immensely likeable Unbelievable, and now Judith Lucy’s promising Spiritual Journey.

All of these shows contain comedy and/or are hosted by comics, and might reasonably be expected to be ‘funny’. None of them particularly are; in fact the times where we take a ‘gag break’ tend to be the least successful moments (a nun pole-dancing in Spiritual Journey? Why, FFS?). But they’re all excellent examples of creative minds stretching, probing, interrogating the world, and using humour to belie the serious nature of the material.

The ‘comedy’ in all of these shows, really, is only the spoonful of sugar to help the medicine go down. Under the veneer of humour in Angry Boys lay a great deal of pain, and it’s no wonder a lot of viewers were wondering what happened to the thigh-slapping Mr G, and finding ‘Slap My Elbow’ a bewildering substitute. Chris Lilley delivered rather more than we asked for, but if we’d known we were getting depth instead of escapist funtime hijinx from the beginning, maybe there’d be fewer snotty blogs complaining it’s not Summer Heights High.

It’s not meant to be. But it made me cry. And it was great.

 

*Fiona Scott-Norman is an Australian arts writer and performer. She has taken her one-woman shows to the Sydney Opera House, the Woodford Folk Festival and all over Australia from Alice Springs to Karatha, and in New Zealand and Hong Kong. Her latest offering is “Disco: The Vinyl Solution. Saving the world one dance floor at a time”. Her website is www.fionascottnorman.com.au

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4 Responses to this article

  1. shelley July 29, 2011 Reply
     
     

    Fiona, in your usual way, you have explained what some of us were thinking but were struggling to articulate. Yes and yes. Thank you.

     
  2. BonBon July 29, 2011 Reply
     
     

    I have been struggling to “get” this series. Having read this, I finally kind of do.

     
  3. linda July 30, 2011 Reply
     
     

    “ditto”

     

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